How
depression counseling is helping persons in Boston dramatically improve
their lives.
Already know about Thrive Boston Depression Counseling? Call 617-395-5806 to schedule your counseling session.
What if you woke up tomorrow morning and a miracle had occurred overnight?
While you were sleeping, the problems that have been bothering you;
your job, your money, your relationships, your worries, issues in your
everyday life-everything was fixed.
Take a minute and think about it.
- What would your life be like?
- Where would you be when you woke up?
- How would you feel?
- How long would that feeling last?
- What would be the first thing you would do?
It's
an interesting question, isn't it? It's called "The Miracle Question"
and it's often used to help counseling clients, like you,
- Determine what they want in their life to change, and
- Decide how they really want to live.
Does
the 'miracle question', and your answers to the questions above seem
impossible? You're not alone. In fact, many people have felt this way.
However, what we at Thrive Boston Counseling have found is that when
you begin to identify the core of specific problems in your life,
change can be More Within Reach, and can Happen Faster, than you ever
thought possible.
Consider the experience of "Mike" (name changed, story 100% true), a
once-client of Thrive Boston Counseling. Mike has given us permission
to use his story.
True Case Study - Depression Counseling in Cambridge, MA
Mike, a 30-year-old MIT graduate, had been depressed for most of his life. He
began counseling therapy at Thrive Boston Counseling not expecting it
to make much of a difference, as he had seen counselors before.
However, Mike was willing to give it one more shot. He explained, "I've
been to counseling before, but I never saw it through."
I asked Mike if he would agree to "see it through" this time, and he
said he would. He said, "I have no choice, I don't know if I want to
live anymore. I think I should give counseling an honest shot."
Mike was borderline suicidal, and the first few sessions with Mike were
difficult for both of us. Mike would arrive to session in anguish from
the depression, and social anxiety, he experienced every day. He would
often say that he believed he was permanently defective as a person,
and he told me once that he had read somewhere that some people are
genetically prone to being unhappy-something he was sure applied to
him.
Here is an example of how down Mike was. One day Mike came into my
office, and I asked him how his week had been. "It was okay" mike told
me, looking down, and looking very low.
"Any high points?" I asked him?
"Not really?" he said.
"Well, what did you do this week?" I asked.
"Some friends and I went to Ireland," he said.
This is how depressed Mike was. He and a few of his friends found some
cheap airline tickets online and took off the week before and spent 5
days in Ireland! The trip went well, and Mike still reported that he
experienced no high points.
The more Mike felt depressed or anxious, the more he told himself he
was defective, which made him even more depressed and anxious. It was a
bad downward spiral. I knew then that I needed to help Mike change the
destructive things he was telling himself if I was going to help him
change his mood.
During counseling, Mike learned a few really important things that
helped him change his life. First, he learned that he doesn't need to
be anything to be valuable. Whether he found a great job or lost his
job, whether he became the most popular person in Boston or the most
unliked person in Boston, whether he lost 10 pounds or gained 11
pounds, he was still a valuable and acceptable person.
Mike was harder on himself than he was on anyone else (something lots
of our clients bring to therapy), so we practiced reframing his
thoughts. Sometimes in session I would ask, "Would you be as hard on a
good friend as you are on yourself?" the answer was always "No way. I
would tell my friend he is fine the way he is, and I would mean it!"
Soon, Mike began to realize the flaw in his double standard.
It took Mike about a month to begin to really own this new perspective,
but once he did he was able to be nicer to himself. He stopped fearing
that others would reject him. He stopped fearing failure. He starting
to say things like, "I
have realized that I am acceptable the way I am, and that if I want to
try and improve something in my life I can do that-and whether it works
out or not, things are always going to be ok!"
Once Mike had this perspective, his life started to improve
dramatically. He was able to engage openly with others, without fear
(his co-workers and friends), because he didn't worry that he would be
rejected. He no longer became frustrated at work, or worried about
losing his job (however, even though he didn't have fear of losing his
job, his work improved and he received a promotion!). His mood went
from extremely low (Major Depressive Disorder) to having no signs of
depression whatsoever.
When Mike first came to counseling, I asked him to fill out David
Burn's Depression inventory (a popular depression test). Mike scored in
the high double-digits, meaning he was severely depressed. About two
months later, I handed the same depression test to him and he literally
laughed out loud! He said, "I can tell you without even looking at this, all my scores are going to be zero - I'm not depressed at all."
Mike and I, soon after, ended counseling, and his improved mood was
still there during a 6-month follow up session. Mike attributes his
recovery to the work we did in session, the skill and tools he learned
that have empowered him to change his thinking, which have helped him
to live in peace and happiness with himself-and take charge of his
life!
This is a true story, but it is not the exception. Every year, Thrive
Boston Counseling Therapy helps hundreds of clients, just like Mike,
experience a dramatic life change. Sometimes it is about depression or
anxiety, sometimes it is about relationships, sometimes it is about
career, money, sex, addiction, fear, or anger. Thrive Boston Counseling
Therapy holds true to our philosophy that EVERYONE has the ability to
life an exciting, fulfilling life. Everyone has the ability to Thrive.
Thrive Boston Counseling Therapy:
Professional Endorsements
Anthony
Centore is one of the most talented, insightful, and promising
therapists I've ever met. There is nothing about him or his practice
that doesn't ring of quality, innovation, and real help. And
speaking of Thrive, I truly believe it embodies the highest ethical
standards, the most sound and time-tested counseling practices, and,
perhaps most importantly, a natural, warm disposition with clients as
the primary focus. As a therapist, I'd feel more than comfortable
using Thrive for the counseling needs of myself or my family.
-- Ryan Neace, M.A. Therapist, Central VA
The
dramatic success of Thrive Counseling is a tribute to its ardent
commitment to excellence and to making a difference in people's
lives. Founder and Director Dr. Anthony Centore and his staff of
experienced clinicians offer a powerful combination of integrity,
knowledge, and expertise. I wholeheartedly recommend Thrive Counseling
to anybody seeking counseling from caring, dedicated
professionals. -- Jory H. Fisher, JD
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Introducting Thrive Boston Counseling's approach to Counseling and Life Coaching
My name is Dr. Anthony Centore, Director of Thrive Boston Depression
Counseling, (writing on behalf of the Therapists at Thrive Boston
Counseling) and if we were together right now, I would want you to know
one thing--that no matter what your situation, no matter how dark
things in your life might seem, no matter what has happened in your
past--you can experience a better life.
It might not seem that way right now. If you are in a place of hurt or
pain, you are not alone. In fact, we live in times when many people are
hurting. People today are often struggling with Major Depression, and its sister problem Anxiety.
Depression Problems:
One in 5 people experience depression every year. This isn't just "the blues", or feeling down. Depression is a medical condition that steals life away from both persons who struggle with it, and their loved ones-those closest to them.
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Loss of Interest in Activities that were once Enjoyed
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Weight Loss or Weight Gain (change of appetite)
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Insomnia or Sleeping More that Usual
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Feeling Slowed Down Physically
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Agitation and Irritability
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Decreased Energy or Fatigue
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Feelings of Worthlessness
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Being unable to concentrate, and more.
In Boston, depression can be exacerbated by our busy and time-starved lives, and by the short summers and long-dark winters.
Anxiety Problems:
People with anxiety feel constant fear and dread. They cannot calm down
and feel unrest and worry most of the day, most days. Anxiety can
be made worse by many things in your day to day life:
External situations (viewing the news, a fast paced lifestyle),
Physical well being (lack of sleep, blood sugar), Learning
(parents who were highly anxious), and Trauma (situations that caused great pain).
Anxiety symptoms can include:
- Inability to relax
- Tense feelings
- Rapid heartbeat
- Dry mouth
- Increased blood pressure
- Jumpiness or feeling faint
- Excessive perspiring
- Feeling clammy
- Constant anticipation of trouble
- Constant feeling of uneasiness
If
you are struggling with Depression, or Depression with Anxiety, it is
possible you are also suffering with Self-Image or Relationship
Problems, or both. We have provided some information for you below:
Self-Image Problems:
Self-esteem refers to an inner sense of value that gives you resilience
to attacks or criticism. Every person has ideas about their self-worth.
Having good self-esteem does NOT mean being proud or having an over-blown "ego".
Low self-esteem can cause: feelings of self-hate, believing that
one is unworthy or incompetent, a refusal to get close to people, a
belief that one doesn't deserve strong or supportive relationships,
refusal to trust others, and an inability to accept oneself as special
or unique.
Your self-esteem is in trouble when you allow others to convince you that you are not valuable or significant.
Poor self-esteem is often the result of prolonged periods of negative
feedback in a person's life. This results in deep wounds and emotional
pain.
Relationship Problems:
We feel more isolated today than ever before.
50% of marriages end in divorce. Communication problems, anger,
dependency, jealousy, painful pasts, adultery, and uncertainty about a
relationship's future are just a few of the things that can cause serious relationship problems.
Also, today (more than ever) persons are finding that they feel
completely alone, even in a large city, such as Boston, MA.
The problem of isolation gets even worse when we work long hours, have
moved several times, or when our social support system has left us.
Do these problems sound familiar to you? It is no secret that today, people are hurting.
We live in the most affluent times in history of the world, but
affluent times does not make our problems go away (and many of us still
struggle to make ends meet).
It is often said that we are
the unhappiest generation who has ever lived. That is a tragedy--too
many lives are wasted by the problems of depression, anxiety,
self-image, and by broken relationships.
The real tragedy is that many people suffer for years without getting help, when change is right there at their fingertips.
They just don't know how to reach out and take it.
Has this been you?
"I Want to Overcome my Depression"
Thrive Boston Counselors, every year, help hundreds of individuals,
couples, and families from Cambridge and Boston (We also help clients
from around the country who seek out our expertise by telephone or
online counseling).
We serve clients who work at Harvard University, MIT, Boston
University, Tufts, Mclean Hospital, Brigham and Women's--many of our
clients are some of the top thinkers in the country who trust and rely
on the care provided by Thrive Boston Counselors.
At Thrive, we are focused on you, the client. Simply put, from the
first time you make a phone call to our office (617-395-5806), to the first time you arrive in our offices you are always respected and treated with sensitive, professional care.
I (or another Thrive Boston Psychotherapist) will treat you with the
respect and care you deserve. At Thrive, you are a person, not a
disorder. Not a combination of symptoms--which is often the status quo
with counseling practices these days. --A disorder does not explain or
summarize you, or your life experience.
We help our clients live better, more engaging, more successful lives
(many of our clients are high-achieving, widely respected
professionals).
The Thrive Boston Counseling philosophy guides everything we do.
- Clients with Depression are not just relieved of their pain, they experience happiness.
- Clients with Anxiety are not just calmed down, they experience peace of mind.
- Clients with Relationship problems learn to build and grow meaningful relationships.
- Clients who have Guilt and shame learn to forgive themselves, and others.
- Clients with Addictions don't just kick the bad habit, they become whole.
"Your First Counseling Appointment is This Week"
(No Waiting Lists)
We want to find you the care you need.
You've made it this far, let us walk with you from this point...this point right here...until you are where you want to be. Until you have reached your personal goals for both wellness and success.
The Boston Therapists at Thrive do something no other counselors,
psychotherapists, psychologists, social workers, or anyone else in the
Boston / Cambridge mental health counseling field does.
Call Thrive Boston Counseling today to schedule your first session, and
we will schedule your first therapy appointment with an excellent
therapist this week! Sometimes we can even manage to get new
clients an appointment the SAME DAY that they call.
We can only offer it because Thrive Boston Counselors believe helping
you get started in your life changing counseling therapy process is so
important, that we're willing to open our schedules in a way that we
can offer this.
The way we see it is this: You
worked up the motivation and courage to begin counseling, the least we
can do is help you receive your first counseling session right away.
In case you missed it, our number is 617-395-5806.
We know this is just the beginning of your healing and life-changing counseling experience.
We really do want you to find the help, care, information, education,
or motivation you are looking for. Let's begin right now.
Warmly,
Dr. Anthony Centore

and the Thrive Boston Counseling Team
P.S.
In case you missed our offer, the offer that no other Boston counseling
practice can give you--I will write it one more time here.
Call Thrive Boston Counseling and speak with a master level counseling
professional, who will answer your questions and will help you schedule
an appointment with an excellent Thrive Boston Counselor for this week.
No more waiting lists, no more waiting to get help.
You are on this page for a reason. If you are here to experience a
better life, or if you just have more questions, let's talk. Help and healing starts now. Call 617-395-5806.
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